AUTHOR: Fishe1 – (U.S.A.)

I’m a former member of AFF. I know for sure that there are real women on the site. I dated a very well known member, and corresponded with the “former” owner/CEO Andrew Conrue. There were some email phishing bots on the site, but many people there are genuine. The nature of the site lends itself to scams so I recommend you carefully scrutinize the people you contact. There were technical problems with the website, but I recieved free months of membership, and upgrades for compensation. The company changed hands some months ago, so I don’t know how it is now, but I have seen more agressive marketing.

AUTHOR: Yvonne – (U.S.A.)

I’ve been a AFF member for 4 years. I am a real woman, 50+ yrs old, with a college degree, a professional job and a lust for life that is not being filled at home. I have several girlfriends who are also AFF members.

I have met some very nice, local men on AFF and have had an ongoing 3 yr. affair with one of them.

My advice to anyone considering using Adult Friendfinder is this. think before you post a photo. Take your time and make sure you get to know who you are talking to – before you go to meet them. Use some caution. Use some discretion! Buyer beware!

I get dozens of emails from men who are desperate to jump into bed with anyone who will reply. I won’t reply to them. I have married guys send face shots – duh. you don’t even know me yet and you trust me on the first email? If you are that indiscreet, why should I trust you to keep our affair a secret? Oh, and I hate getting pictures of someone’s anatomy, I won’t reply to those either.

To those men who have complained that they didn’t meet any real women, I’m sorry you feel that way. Obviously you had unrealistic expectations or you did one of the No No’s I mentioned in the previous paragraph.

AUTHOR: Henry – (U.S.A.)

I know you have probably heard this before with ” I had a friend. ” But one of my best friends who actually referred me to Adult Friend Finder, had several relationships and dates come about due to his membership w/ Adult Friend Finder. He did however have a paid membership, but it was not a Gold or high dollar membership, it was a silver membership. Which basically allows you to email and reply to email and get notices about who has looked at your profile. So, for my friend at least, AFF was a success.

AUTHOR: Fredrick78 – (Canada)

Interestingly enough I had been scanning through some of the pictures on AFF the other day I noticed the oddest thing. When I was younger I met this girl, off the internet, she sent me a picture which was very attractive (a model). I met up with this girl and it turned out not be her at all and she had completely lied to me about the picture, this was about 5 years ago. i scanned through the pictures on AFF I noticed the exact same picture that the girl sent me, being a so called member of that site.

Now is this a coincidence? Did she steal that picture off adult friend finder? Is there such a girl on adult friend finder? I find it highly unlikely as one of my compadres happened to email me a web address of most commonly used fake pictures and that picture so happened to be on the site. I have never been a member of AFF, I get action on my own, therefore my opinion is completely unbiased. I believe that the poor business practices used by AFF soliciting fraudulent pictures to extort desperate people would be a good example of undue influence.