I’m curious because looking at the hotel maid flash videos it seems the maids immediately walk out, some with smiles on their face. With those who smiled, if you enjoyed what you saw, what keeps you from taking another look? Is there anything the guy could do to assure you stay? What if you were absolutely certain he wasn’t able to see or hear you?

Another poster wrote, “Sounds like the reactions of women in general; they are quite happy to watch so long as they can convince themselves that you don’t know it.”

Even for those men that flash or jerk off in front of very young teens – there is at least one stepdage they may inflict. That explains the tone of this deeply horrifying (even by Dickflash standards) thread discussing the various things posters have done to people, including “friends” when they’re passed out or drunk. A sample narrative: A girl at a college party, who “was very attractive and way out of my league at the time,” passed out on the couch. “

Some parts of Dickflash don’t fall along the spectrum of sexual assault; there’s some mutually-consensual exhibitionism, which is a helpful cover for its corporate parent, AdultFriendFinder, part of the same group that publishes Penthouse

On these forums, lack of consent can itself be a form of titillation. Exulting about an encounter at the Barcelona airport, one man wrote, “I have never so openly and proudly shot my load for a non-consenting women before or since this, it will always remain one of my horniest memories!”

The www.besthookupwebsites.org/seniorfriendfinder-review flashers aren’t completely incapable of understanding themselves; they seem to kind of know why they like it. “The more risky the better the pleasure,” says one. Another writes:

It ends with, “I would have loved to have been there when she woke up and realized there was a glob of cum all over her hand, but I decided to get out of there and just walk home

I think the odd factor for me increases the riskiness of the situation. For example, if I was in a boxed in up to my neck and nobody knew what I was doing, I would not really get off that much masturbating near hot girls. The other big factor for me is the time factor. I found that knowing I have only 20-40 seconds to cum with the girl near me, this really gets me turned on.

Some of the members of Dickflash recognize that they have a problem. This thread started by “boaby fantastic” was illuminating:

I simply can’t do it anymore. The terror of being caught, my heart racing every time a police car drives past; it was too much. Plus, there was the feeling deep down inside that what I was doing is simply wrong. Now, I don’t want to judge anyone here, and I don’t think I’m morally superior to any of you active flashers, but I found that I was basically just offending woman after woman to find the occasional one who enjoyed it. I flashed around 50 women I think. one enjoyed it, and one possibly enjoyed it. That just nawed [sic] at my conscience too much.

But consensual flashing, which would require communication with a partner, would actually negate the point for many of Dickflash’s posters, including the remarkably self-aware “boaby fantastic,” who also writes:

I have thought about trying permission flashes or whatever you might call them, but I believe part of the reason I feel the need to flash is kind of as a clumsy way of making contact with someone. Ironically, the thought of talking to a strange woman scares me alot more than showing her my dick.